My son will be 2 this weekend and he still relies on a bottle to drink his milk. We did however take it away from him in bed. We give him dinner and sometimes a dessert or snack, and then he gets his bottle of milk. After he finishes his milk, he brushes his teeth, uses the potty, and gets in his bed with some books. We expected him to fight us tooth and nail when we first took the bed time bottle away, but it was a lot easier than we thought. I'm guessing it will be the same for you. We did have to help him fall asleep for the first couple of nights and stayed with him until he was out. After that, he was fine. We do let him take something to bed with him. Some kids have an attachment to a doll or bear or blanket, our son has an attachment to a Little People dog this week, so that's what he takes to bed. This object he needs for his comfort has been a Lego block, a car, a xylophone mallet...you name it. We also keep a sippy cup of water at the corner of his bed so he knows he can have a drink if he gets thirsty. That being said, we have tried every trick in the book to get him to give up the bottle completely with no luck. He will drink water, juice, and anything else out of a sippy cup or a regular cup or drink bottle, but he refuses to drink milk out of anything except his bottle. If your daughter talks (our son doesn't talk yet), you could try to just talk to her about not having milk in bed anymore. But reassure her that she can still sleep w/o it. If you want to transition her, I would start by giving her cold milk in the bottle instead of warm. Maybe that will turn her off from it. Or you could try reducing the amount she gets every night until there is none, and then try to take it away. What worked for us was cold turkey and after a few days, he forgot all about needing it fall asleep.