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we started when we felt she was able to comprehend what was going on...it was probably after her 2nd birthday but i'm not sure exactly. you're probably right around that time...for us, it's been a long hard road but no pressure...
what do they say...there aren't too many 30 year olds still in pull ups.
noooo pressure.
I had the potty chair in the bathroom and let my daughter sit on it with her clothes at first. I wanted her to get use to it and feel comfortable. I would try to tell her what it is for. I then proceeded to ask her if she wanted to try and when she said yes, we did. She is now 2 and going on her 5th day in big girl undies. We also gave her a reward after she went on the potty. She loves money. So we would let her put a penny in a jar each time she went. She thought it was really cool. When it was full we went to the store and bought a toy with her own money. It will be a long road. Good luck!!!
I'm kind of in the same boat. Wyatt is 20 months and showing lots of signs but has no interest in the seat. This weekend he got my attention, told me "potty" and promptly peed in his diaper and took it off to show me. I think that's partly being ready to at least learn about it and partly being a stinker.
What signs is she showing that she's ready? Our ped told us that it's something that we shouldn't rush or make a really big deal about right now because that can do more harm than help.
I have a daughter who is 18 months also. I have decided to start potty training too. Think about this, I have a mother-in-law who has 9 brothers and sisters. Her mother tells me she had everyone of them potty trained before 18 months. It seems that if you talk to people who raised children back then, kids were trained much sooner than now. I have the ability to be home most of the time with my daughter, so we are giving it a try. If they could do it this soon back then, why can't we now? And honestly, it's been only a few weeks trying,but shes excited about it and is enjoying potty time. My step-son was 3 before he was potty trained. I won't let that happen again! He was old enough to rebel against it and it was a struggle. There's bound to be accidents but think about how many less diapers you'll change!
The only thing these little ones can control is when and where they will use the potty. I have a son who is almost 5 and was trained at 3 and a younger son who is 16 months. It will happen when THEY are ready, both physically and mentally. If you push too much too fast, you will have a rebellion on your hands, regardless of age. There are many parents who had trained their kids by 2 and then at 3 they are still dealing with accidents and rebellions. Finally, there are plenty of parents who claim to have potty trained prior to 18 months. However, many times they are the ones who are well trained, not the kids. Just relax and stay positive about it! Good luck!
When my son started telling me that he was "wet" I thought it was the right time to start. He had just turned two. He's not completely trained yet but were still working on it and he's two and a half now. My doctor told me that we would know when he's ready and not to push him. I've also heard that boys are harder to train than girls. He is in daycare and they have "potty breaks" every so many hours and when he sees the rest of the older 2's go then he has to go. Hope this helps.
I started introducing the potty to my daughter when she was about 18 months and finally 1 week after her third birthday she potty trained. I was at my witts end thinking she was going to get married in pull ups, I tired all kinds of underwear as a negotiating tool and you would think I was feeding her raw liver everytime she looked at a pair of panties. Sure enough, just as everyone told me, I left her be and one day she woke up from her nap and said she wanted her underwear!! For the first week I would ask her if she had to go, but still put her on the potty every 45 minutes or so. After about 5 days she was telling me when she had to go. Within 10 days she was accident free. I think you just have to make it available to them but let them decide when they are ready. When all the muscle and brain connections are made in their little bodies potty training goes real easy. Until then, lots of frustration for Mommy. Take it in stride and bring a fluffy cushion, the bathroom floor gets real hard by the 4th book.
Smile, it increases your face value! :)
Jodi
There is an increasing number of moms out there introducing the idea of pottying somewhere other than in your pants as early as 2-weeks. This is a no pressure method. You can find out a lot of information by searching the internet for "Elimination Communication". In most of the rest of the world moms do not have access to diapers, so their kids learn much earlier to find the proper place to "go". I think if you look into this method you will also find support for what you are doing now with your child. It is never too early and never too late, if you ask me....
I started sitting him on the potty at 9 months, after naps and first thing in the morning. We still have problems on a schedule, but is is doing great. We have only be doing this for about three weeks.
Peace,
Alannah
My son is 18 months, and he has started showing signs of being ready (pulling at his diaper, not wanting a diaper on, etc.) so we went and got him a potty. I'm home for the summer (I'm a teacher) so I thought this would be a good time to introduce it. He has used the potty a total of 6 times this week (I'm pretty sure that's just due to good timing on my part) - but at least it's getting the concept that you go to the potty when you need to pee or poo. I have the attitude that "he is young, it may not work, but let's try anyway". I'm not pushing, and if we go to the bathroom and he doesn't want to sit down, I'm not forcing - but I do have to say that most of the time he is willing to go and sit on the potty (we are teaching him to sit for now, later he'll learn to stand up to pee). I know it's a long road ahead though - my niece is almost 4 and if she had her way she would wear pull-ups everyday! I have also talked to people who had their kids trained at 18 months, and others who it took until they were 4 - I think in the end it all depends on how you approach it and the child's idea of it. Good luck!