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How to be a happy mom.

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Whe you are covered in spit-up, hair is a mess, husband is being a jerk, and he (at noon on Friday) has informed you that he will be working on Saturday, and yes its 1pm and you are still sporting your pjs becouse you have not had a spare moment to put on jeans...much less a clean shirt, how do you manage to be a happy mom?

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If I may share...I personally would:

1)turn up the radio up high to either pink, coldplay, pussycat dolls
2)put baby in his bouncer (after feed, diaper change etc)
3)make my favorite snack...
4)dance and sing wildly

Not only will it relieve some stress, but will cheer you up when u see the baby staring at you weirdly and enjoying it all with you.

Dancing wiildly ALWAYS helps! Also I love to do some light yoga to relieve stress, Rodney Yee makes some great videos! 

Maybe take up painting, sculpting, or even knitting during naptime? Or maybe just play some violent video games! Lol.

Its so hard, but just watching my daughter sleep or building blocks with her is enough to make me realise that I am a lucky lucky woman. Its hard not to be a happy mom!

And hey! If you want to PM me to chat or rant. Feel free!

...So long. And thanks for all the fish...

...So long. And thanks for all the fish...

Put that baby in the bouncer or swing or vibrating chair, pop him in front of a Teletubbies epsidode if you have to, and take a few minutes for yourself for something you would like to do, even if it is sit and do absolutely nothing but breathe with your eyes closed.  I used to put mine in the vibrating chairs and stick them next to the tub and take a loooong shower.  Or, better yet, call a grandma or babysitter and get a bigger break.  Shopping is very therapeutic ;)  Also, getting some fresh air is important when you feel cooped up in the house all day, especially at this time of year.  Bundle the bundle of joy up and go for even a short walk; it will boost your spirits.  Be sure when Daddy does come home that you hand the little one off so he has some baby time, too.  A unhappy mommy means everyone is unhappy, so be sure to make time for yourself, no matter how hard or trivial it seems.  Mama said there'd be days like this, but they won't all be like this.  Chin up, you can do it!   

From a mom of identical twin 3 1/2 year old girls. 

p.s. One day you'll miss being covered in spit up :)

I think happy is a stretch under those conditions.  In fact, removing the pressure to BE happy is critical to me in moments like that.  Instead I leave my kids at play in their (basically safe) room (they are 4 and 2), close my own door and take ten deep breaths, put myself in my children's place imaginatively until I get some perspective, then return to duty.

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By doing what you are doing. Talk about it with other moms, share your day with someone.  Finding humor in it, laugh about it. We have all gone through this. It gets better. Do something fun that you love to do. Listen to music. Watch a comedy. Puts the kids to sleep and take a rest. Yoga helps reduce stress. Take deep breaths. It will be worth it. When they wrap their arms around you and tell you that they love you. It will be worth it.

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I'm right there with you! I've had these days too, and I have only been a Mom for 2.5 months. Do you have "on demand" from your cable provider? If you go to fitness TV "on demand" they have 20 minute work outs. Put your baby in the swing and do a 20 minute work out. Your baby will be entertained by watching Mommy bounce around the living room, and you'll get a little endorphin rush (and maybe tighter abs too).

I remember.  I remember how much I love my daughter.  I remember how she is such a miracle.  I remember how lucky I am to have her in my life, how empty it was before her.  No spit up, great hair days, size 10 jeans....haha.....but EMPTY.  That's what I do, and it works every time!  :)

Corinna

First get a schedule for you and for baby,second,it's only hard if you make it hard,try not to stress about the little things,have fun ,your baby is only little for a short while

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