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I am 24 and have been an orphan since I was 16. So needless to say I have no family around, of course my friends are great but no actual family support. My boyfriend comes from a really strict Catholic family, His brother is a MD and they are okay, But there is something wrong with him. He is almost 36, we have been together since October and in January I realized I was Prego.. At first I was okay b/c I was shocked and so was he, But now we have to find a place and get down to the nitty gritty and all we do is ARGUE. ARGUE. ARGUE. I am so tired of it. I cant get a straight answer out of him, all he seems to care about is his Infinity and going to the gym and I " Need to do what I need to do" What a jerk. So right now we split for a whle, but I really dont love him he drives me insane and I dont think hes ready... Heres a good summary..I feel that I have tried to talk to him many many many times and I cant get any real answers out of him .I went to get some clothes at his house and he HID IN THE BATHROOM for Gods sakes... 35 years old....He tells me Its only my fault that we argue and fight but when I ask him what he thinks about the situation or what he has to say he says I dunno , maybe possibly its up to you , depends on what you wanna do..... Obviously not a straight answer right????.. And then he says hes not givin me ADVICE either way cause, "If you get rid of it you'll blame me and If we end up unhappy, youll blame me," SO I SEE
I am 24 and have been an orphan since I was 16. So needless to say I have no family around, of course my friends are great but no actual family support. My boyfriend comes from a really strict Catholic family, His brother is a MD and they are okay, But there is something wrong with him. He is almost 36, we have been together since October and in January I realized I was Prego.. At first I was okay b/c I was shocked and so was he, But now we have to find a place and get down to the nitty gritty and all we do is ARGUE. ARGUE. ARGUE. I am so tired of it. I cant get a straight answer out of him, all he seems to care about is his Infinity and going to the gym and I " Need to do what I need to do" What a jerk. So right now we split for a whle, but I really dont love him he drives me insane and I dont think hes ready... Heres a good summary..I feel that I have tried to talk to him many many many times and I cant get any real answers out of him .I went to get some clothes at his house and he HID IN THE BATHROOM for Gods sakes... 35 years old....He tells me Its only my fault that we argue and fight but when I ask him what he thinks about the situation or what he has to say he says I dunno , maybe possibly its up to you , depends on what you wanna do..... Obviously not a straight answer right????.. And then he says hes not givin me ADVICE either way cause, "If you get rid of it you'll blame me and If we end up unhappy, youll blame me," SO I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU AARE GOING THROUGH