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posted May 17, 2007 - 1:49am

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chasingjoy
1 year 32 weeks ago

My name is Melissa and I often go by Mel but I don’t have a preference. I'm 35 years old and a first time mom. My son will be 7 weeks old on Monday so I just know we are only days away from that first smile. He smiles and giggles in his sleep constantly so we've had some great sneak peeks. His name is Jensen David. Jensen is a Nordic name to honor my husband’s ancestry.

Jamie, my dh, and I have been together since July 20, 2002. We are a match.com success story and it was love at first sight. We moved in together in September of the same year then decided to get married when we decided to have a baby. We married on the 4-year anniversary of that first date last year. We had a getaway wedding and went to Boston. It was a wonderful week. It was sort of a last hoorah! LOL. Jamie and I love to go to Irish pubs and try new beers so it was the perfect destination. We also started trying to get pregnant on the first day of the trip and while he was not a honeymoon baby we were pregnant with Jensen 23 days later.

Because of my age and the number of years I had been on birth control I had expected it to take some time. Soon after we returned from Boston I purchased a basal thermometer anticipating that I would need a little help. The funny part about that is that I was already 9 days pregnant the day I bought the thermometer! We found out we were pregnant really fast. My body told me right away with a dizzy heat flash, very tender breasts and MANY trips to the bathroom. I thought it couldn’t be already but I took a pregnancy test about 3 days before my period was due and it turned positive immediately.

I’m also a student on again off again since 1989. Still no bachelor’s degree but I’m only 5 classes away from finishing. I’m taking the summer off. Typically I take 2 classes per semester but I see no way I could possibly take 2 classes in the fall and keep up with an infant so I will need to drop to 1 class per semester. That means the Financial Aid folks will start hounding me soon. I’m not sure what I’ll do about that because we’re not ready to add that bill. When Jensen is 1 or 2 I will start a grad program probably in clinical psychology. I hope to eventually work with people in an institutional setting with severe eating disorders.

Jamie and I want me to be a stay at home mom until Jensen goes to school. We are considering having a second child so we would wait a little longer. I had a rough pregnancy toward the very end. I have chronic hypertension for which I’ve taken meds for about 9 years. At the end of my pregnancy my bp was typically 180/110 and went as high as 203/121. At week 36 I had some protein in my urine but my doc said it was still in the ok range. On my Monday 37-week visit, after spending Thursday and Friday of the previous week in labor in delivery with blood pressure and swelling problems, my doc said, “let’s have a baby.” I thought she was going to make me wait until week 38 so we were really surprised. Jensen was full breech so I had to have a C-Section. Jensen David joined the world with a loud wail at 5:49 pm.

That’s probably enough to get us started. Ask me questions, please! I hope to get to know everyone. Oh, I guess I should say where we live, lol! We’re in Liberty, TN. We're about 1 hour from Nashville and 40 minutes from Murfreesboro and Lebanon.  We go to Murfreesboro a lot because there is NOTHING where I am. Nothing, that is, other than some incredibly beautiful country.

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PinkyMommie
1 year 32 weeks ago

Hi Mel,..I am new as well. My name is Jessica, I am 33 years old. I am mother to 4 kids, ages 13,12,10 and 6. I am also homeschool mom and working mom. Dancing

I try and guggle around but not easy.

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chasingjoy
1 year 32 weeks ago

Hi Jessica. We're thinking about home schooling as well. What got you started? Have you enjoyed the experience? What do you like and dislike about it?

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luckymommy
1 year 32 weeks ago

Hello SAHM's. My name is Tricia. I just joined mothersclick this afternoon. I have 2 boys, Adam will be 2 in a couple of weeks, and Luke is 8 months old. I am also 4 months preggo with boy #3. My husband and I recently moved our family away from the Wash.DC metro area and bought a small house with a yard in southern PA. Hubby still commutes to his job in N.VA daily though. So far I haven't met a lot of people around here...So does SAHM mean stay at home mom, or stuck at home mom? Winking smiley

Adam has been through all manner of testing for hearing loss to autism all because he doesn't talk. We had him in speech therapy but dropped it because the therapist kept telling us she wasn't qualified to diagnose him as autistic, but she's certain he is. Despite passing the initial evaluations to rule out potential autism, she kept insisting he was and that he must have a serious hearing disability. He passed his last hearing test and the ped. audiologist questioned us as to why we thought he had a problem. The sessions were too stressful on all of us, so we dropped them. The pediatrician did not think he was autistic at all.

 Luke has been through his own problems as well. The first 6 months with him were really tough. He had a pretty bad case of jaundice, and had to have his bili tested 9 times in his first week of life. Once the jaundice cleared up, we went into severe reflux issues. After large doses of medicine and lots of experimenting with different formulas, meds, routines, etc., he had to undergo an endoscopy to reveal a potential problem here or there, but nothing concrete. Around 6 months, he just seemed to outgrow it all and has been a perfect angel since then, even sleeping through the night.

The pregnancy has been very tough on me. I've already been on bed rest once for bleeding. The bleeding hasn't stopped, but I am out of the first trimester and the chance of miscarriage has dropped. My placenta is too low and on my cervix right now. I've had 4 u/s already, and the last one we saw what looked like boy parts, but the tech did not want to confirm or deny that this early on. I will be having another u/s in a few weeks and then again in the 3rd tri. to see where my placenta is at.

I hope to get to know some other SAHM's and avoid feeling so isolated all the time.

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chasingjoy
1 year 32 weeks ago

Hey Tricia!  Sounds like you've really been on a roller coaster ride!  I wish you all the best with this pregnancy!!!

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luckymommy
1 year 32 weeks ago

You really met your hubby on match.com? How neat! My husband and I only dated for 7 months before we got married. We knew each other for slightly longer than that, but not much.

Tricia

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chasingjoy
1 year 32 weeks ago

Hi Tricia!

Yep, we met on Match.com.  It was just in time too.  I was on a 30 day free trial and had no intentions of paying for a membership because I was on a super tight budget.  Jamie contacted me the day before I was going to cancel my account.  LOL.  It was meant to be!  I'm still very much in love nearly 5 years later.  I had no idea that the "in love" feeling could be maintained.  It's awesome!

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luckymommy
1 year 31 weeks ago

I think lucky people get to keep the spark alive in their marriage after the kids arrive. My hubby and I are still just as attracted to each other today as we were when we first met...and I guess that's why we're expecting baby #3. Winking smiley

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msmomof3
1 year 29 weeks ago

I live in Gulfport Mississippi with my three children and my wonderful husband. My husbands name is Jon and he is 33 and he works for a paving company. My children names and ages are Adam 10, Ashley 8 and kathryn 6 months. I do have another son but he lives in Michigan with his father. I am currently a stay a home mom who goes to school full time to get my associates degree in business.

My husband and I have been together almost 6 yrs, although we have only been married about a year. July 2nd is our anniversary.

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luckymommy
1 year 29 weeks ago

My oldest son is named Adam, too, but he is only 2 years old. I'm so envious that you live so close to the beach! When I was a child my parents would travel along I-10 frequently, but neither liked the beach, so we never stopped or vacationed at one. I was born and raised in TX and only got to see the Gulf once while I lived there.

Good luck with your degree. I know it isn't easy going back to school, especially not after you've had kids. Kudos to you! --Tricia

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TracyB
1 year 25 weeks ago

I am a 36 year old SAHM and part-time WAHM to 2 kids, Rebecca 3 and Brandon almost 2.  I'm hoping to pop at least one more out before I decide to go back to work!  But I'm not planning to do that for a few more years.

Me & my kids love to get out and be active.  My daughter makes friends so easily.  My son is kind of a loner.  So I guess it's true that they say no 2 kids are just alike.  My kids are like night and day.

I have been a member on Mother's Click for about 5 months now and I love it!  I started a Mom's group on here and we are the greatest group in our area!

~~Tracy~~ Mommy to Rebecca 3/29/04 and Brandon 8/25/05 Wife to Randy 8/29/98

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Pnutt115
1 year 20 weeks ago

Hi I'm Jessica and I have a 20 month old son. He is so adventurous that he keeps me on my toes. We live in mid-western PA out in the country.

Jessica McCurdy
Proud Member of The M.O.M Team
www.momtomombiz.com

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Beata29
1 year 19 weeks ago

Hello im Beata Smiley .
I have a 3 yr old daughter and almost 5 yr old son living with me & there father. We are from Chicago and looking for frends.............

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M.I.L.F.13
1 year 19 weeks ago

Hello, I'm Mary.
I'm 23 and have two daughters. Jordan is 3 and Peyton is 6 weeks. We live in Illinois and I'm looking for other moms to talk too.

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ululani
1 year 17 weeks ago

Hi my name is Ululani.
I have 1 daughter, 11, and 2 sons, ages 3 and 10mos. My husband and I just celebrated our 10th anniversary and look forward to many more years. We are highschool sweethearts from Hawaii. We moved away for 5 years and decided that was too long to be away from home. We moved back to Hawaii 5 years ago and don't plan on leaving the islands again. I look forward to talking with all you moms out there.

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pattireis00
1 year 17 weeks ago

Hi all,

Just realized I've been posting awhile but hadn't introduced myself here. My name is Patti. I am the mother of one extremely busy girl, who will be three in November. My husband and I have been struggling a bit since our decision to have me stay home, but we're still glad we made the choice and haven't looked back (well, not really, anyway). Unfortunately he is currently out of work Sad face He had a job offer in Southern California (we're in Northern California, in the Bay Area, now), but the terms of the offer changed at the last minute. Since they wanted us to move to an area we don't want to live in, we ended up declining even though my husband had already given notice at his job here based on the original terms.

So...we're getting ready to move in with my mother-in-law one week from today. She lives near where we want to be (in So Cal) and has very generously offered to let us stay until my husband can find work. It's a scary situation and it was a tough decision for us to make, but we have faith that it will work out in the end and we'll be better off. It's all toward our end goal of continuing to let me stay at home, while in the meantime he has a job that he can live with and we're in an area we can both enjoy. Who knew when we started that that would be such a lofty goal? I know it's going to pay off for us, though, and we're going to end up secure, with a happy, healthy daughter and hopefully another child down the road.

Patti
SAHM in SF Bay Area

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Thinkpinkladybug28
1 year 16 weeks ago

Hello I am new here. My name is Barbara and I'm 32 with two boys ages 2 and 7 months! I've been with my husband for eight years and married for three!! I love watching the biys grow and how they are now interacting and wouldn't change staying home for that reason. So I sell Bath & Body, candles and spa products from home for a great company that I've been with for almost a year already. I look forward to getting to know everyone and know I will be looking for advice...lol In love

Babs
www.Babs.Thinkpinkladybugspa.com

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gigharbormommy
1 year 13 weeks ago

Hi everyone my name is Amanda,I am from Gig Harbor Washington,originally from Huntington Beach California.My husband and I have a one yr. old daughter Jillian.Its been a most exciting year.We are planning on trying for another baby in Dec.Im nervous though.I am scared i wont be giving 2 babies all the l100 percent equal attention and love.I just love my beatiful girlie so much.I am a stay at home mom so i get to see her every second everyday.When have some of you started the potty training time?I dont know when to start it.

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MommyGotNaps
1 year 8 weeks ago

I'm Andrea (Dre). I currently live in Tampa, FL but I'm originally from Indianapolis, IN. I am a first time mother of a 2 month old boy. I just left college and I am 1 class (4 credit hours) away from a degree in chemistry. I'm new to Tampa (living here 2 weeks) and I hope to locate other SAHMs in the area.

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jbrooten
37 weeks 3 days ago

Hi! My name is Jessica, I am a stay at home mom with 2 kids, an almost 3 yr old and a 4 month old. I've started a little work at home job recently to give me a little extra cash. We go out most days of the week with our mom's group we belong to.

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mommaof1
36 weeks 3 days ago

Hi. My name is Apphia and I am a stay at home mom of 1 of a 2 year old boy. I am a SAHM and I work from home as well. I love life at home because I can ensure that my child is taken care of. We have a a play group that we go to every other day.

Save Money or Make Money With Me At:
www.apphiawebster.com

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atremer
33 weeks 2 days ago

Hi everyone I just wanted to introduce myself. I am Alyson from N.J Crying face If you couldn't tell I can't wait to get out of this state and start somewhere new. I have 2 children, I am a WAHM.

Alyson Tremer
Independent Representative
732-335-4208
Alysontremer@aol.com

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Mama2Dillon
33 weeks 2 days ago

Ashley

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dimples
32 weeks 2 days ago

Hello everyone! I am Krystolyn(Dimples) from Texas. I am a sahm. I am married to a wonderful husband. We are an interracial couple. I am black and his Hispanic(mexican). We have 2 adorable boys ages 4 and 1and a half. I enjoy spending a lot of time with the family, taking trips to Mexico, writing poetry, reading, taking photos of all sorts of things, watching action and comedy movies, the computer.

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Lu
32 weeks 2 days ago

Hello Everyone! I am Lou Woodward for Florida. I am married to my best friend. I have two grown sons and one grandson. Geesh, I think I am the oldest of this group.. Dull

Lou Woodward
www.bellahomebiz.com

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pattireis00
30 weeks 6 days ago

Hi Lou. Don't be discouraged, I've seen plenty of grandmas posting here! Besides, we "younger" moms (I'm not that young as far ss first-time moms go) can use your sage advice! Welcome!

Patti
SAHM in SoCal and administrator of the Sleep Forum group, http://www.mothersclick.com/group/sl...

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Cyn123
30 weeks 2 days ago

Hi!

My name is Cynthia. I am a SAHM and a WAHM. The Lord blessed us with a little girl who is now 7 years old. I do enjoy being home to take care of my little girl and husband.

Cynthia
www.achievingabetterlife.com

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AmazingMomFaith
17 weeks 3 days ago

Flower Hi Everyone, my name is Christin, I am deaf mother of two hearing sons, their names are Chris, he is 5 years old and Luke, he is 15 months old. I am stay at home, loved it because I enjoy spending time with the boys and learn from boys everyday how much they have grown which is amazing! I am hoping that I would meet new friend who is mother from here on MothersClick and I have signed in yesterday. I thought it was interesting! You can send me a message and I'd love to hear from you! Take care and I hope you all have a nice day! Smiley

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rmunoz
17 weeks 1 day ago

Hello all,
My name is Rachel, and I have recently become a stay at home mom. Like most of you probably already know, it's hard to adjust, but I think I'm getting used to it. Actually, my husband and I just got out of the military, and we just moved to Texas. So adjustments are happening everywhere. Well, I look forward to chatting with you guys.

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maryconnie
17 weeks 9 hours ago

Hi Rachel, I'm Connie, I moved to Texas from Mississippi about 4yrs ago. I stay home with my kids I have 2 daughters, 8 and 4, and I have a 1yr old son. What part of Texas did you move to?
Mary Connie Pryll
Proud Member of The MOM Team
lilycub2000@yahoo.com
www.lovingmothers.biz

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